Shawn McCraney shares his personal journey of navigating fatherhood, relationships, and spirituality while preparing for a new phase of his ministry, Heart of the Matter, launching a bold format on October 31st, celebrated as Halloween. He highlights his unique relationship with his daughter Cassidy, who, despite being the most like him, has been a best friend and partner in ministry, showcasing her intuitive and discerning nature amidst discussions on faith, family, and life.
Heart of the Matter ESPRESSO Broadcast
Live from Salt Lake City, Utah, this is Heart of the MatterTGNN’s original show where Shawn McCraney deconstructed religion and developed fulfilled theology. ESPRESSO! where we do all we can to worship God in Spirit and in Truth.
I’m Shawn McCraneyFounder of TGNN and developer of the fulfilled perspective—calling people to faith outside of religion., your host.
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Cassidy McCraney
October 10th 2017
Setting the Stage
PRAYER
Remember, on Tuesday night, October 31st – celebrated as Halloween – we are launching a new bold format for Heart of the Matter as well as another new show all together. Tune in and hear what we are doing and why. If you have nothing else to do and are in town show up here at the church studio and have some dessert and watch it unfold live.
Well you’ve been through some of my family recently – my Mom and Dad the last few weeks and my youngest daughter Delaney. In that interview you heard about how, of all my daughters, she really knew me the least because she had the least amount of exposure to me due to my schedule.
When we interview Mallory next week we will hear from our oldest who had the most exposure to me as a faithful LDS man – and to whom I was perhaps the biggest idiot toward – regretfully. But tonight we get to sit with the daughter who I have spent the most amount of time with in her life but she is in many ways the one who is most like me as an individual – for better or worse.
Speaking with Cassidy McCraney
When Cassidy was just a little one I was seeing a psychologist (named Fran) and psychiatrist to try and manage some really overwhelming issues with insane thinking about self-destruction. During that time, I remember watching Cassidy and some of her traits come forward and on a visit with Fran I said,
“You know, I am really worried that this one is going to wind up not benefiting at all by my presence in her life.” And Fran, being the wise capable woman that she is, said something (in effect) I will never forget. She said:
“Shawn” (She was a New Yorker).
“Shawn, two things. First, you will be one of the only people on earth who can really guide her,” and second, “she will wind up being a best little friend to you in return.”
Father-Daughter Dynamics
I have very unique and good relationships with each of my daughters, but this one has – whether she’s really benefited from it or not – spent the most time with me personally. And not only during her youth and teen years but especially since graduating high school as we have shared an apartment or house for over ten years working in day-to-day ministry together. She knows the good, the bad and the freaking ugly about her dad – and has, true to Fran’s prophecy, wound up being a best little friend to me . . . in spite of myself.
Where all my daughters are extremely creative, Mallory is highly organized, Delaney is extremely driven, and Cassidy is an intuitive freak of nature. Savant-like in her ability to sniff out BS and a hardcore assimilator of information. So with all that, let’s go back Cassidy Shawn McCraney, all the way to early thoughts and impressions especially relative to life, God and religion.
October 31st
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