Understanding Christianity Beyond Confrontation

Rethinking Christianity's Core Message

The byline of my show is, "If you think you know Christianity, you're probably wrong." This may seem like a bold statement, but I urge you to consider it. When I observe Christianity today, especially online on platforms like Facebook, it often appears to be a lot about posturing and asserting what is "right." I have been guilty of this too and have gone astray in the process.

Paul, when addressing the Corinthians, said that although we walk in the flesh, we do not wage war according to the flesh. I constantly have to remind myself that Christianity is not about battling against flesh, meaning against other human beings. Christians should not view others as adversaries. Our struggle is not with them personally. According to Paul, our battle is against principalities in high, dark places—spiritual powers.

Embracing Spiritual Warfare

So how do we fight against such forces? Through prayer, reading scripture, walking in faith, serving others, and overcoming the world with love. Christianity should not be about confronting one person's beliefs against another's. It's not Christianity against Islam or atheism. Our conflict is not with flesh and blood.

Misunderstanding often arises when we treat Christianity as a matter of opposing others in their beliefs or practices. While it is easy to fall into argument because of our human weaknesses, the essence of Christianity is to love others into God's kingdom.

How Love Can Break Barriers

Showing love doesn't mean attacking others' actions or beliefs. Instead, it involves doing things behind the scenes that bring spiritual light into their lives—like praying for them, remembering them on important occasions, or serving them in some way. This is what Christianity is truly about.

You will rarely win an ideological war through argument, particularly against someone with firm beliefs, whether they are a devout Muslim or an atheist. What's likely to make a difference is the love that Jesus commanded Christians to demonstrate.

A Reminder to Act in Love

Tonight, I offer you a gentle reminder: if you are a believer who seeks to truly embody what it means to be a Christian, hold back from attacking others in the flesh. It doesn’t matter what they do, believe, or say—love them. Then, God will work His divine magic in bringing people closer to the truths you hope they come to know.